What happens when a child is taken to a toy store and asked to pick up only one toy which he likes the most? He will be confused for a long time, he will pick one, find another interesting leave the first one, take another, if at all he makes up his mind and finalize a toy, he will be happy for sure, for sometime but later in future he might feel, ‘I should have taken up the another one….’
On another hand what happens if one fine day a parent brings a toy for the child while coming back from work? The child will be happy, and he will remain happy with the toy because he did not have to choose it, he simply got it.
Now what’s the conclusion? It may sound a little weird, but this analogy suddenly popped up in my mind out of nowhere, according to me this is the difference between a love marriage and arranged marriage…: D
P.S. This is not to offend anyone/anything; it’s just something funny I thought I should share with others.
4 comments:
Well probably perfectly true :)
Hehehe so u meant to say the toy brought to u by sm1 is better option..? or the Dilemma
unfortunately yes,because then the decision is not our own..once the decision burden is off u r not confused and when u r nt confused u accept whatever u have been given (or whoever :p)
Hmm if decision is not yours then u can't complain! then the guilt feeling transfers to the other party but both have to suffer na?
Harsha, I guess to make our OWN decisions is a tough task but there u can judge yourself & blamegame do not takes place...
U accept whatever u have been given (or whoever :p)>> here is the real QUESTION!! accepting who ever is that easy?? well commenting more here.. may not be right thing to do! so I'll stop but would love to hear your views on this so hoping for the same :D
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